"Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive!" (Sir Walter Scott, 1808).
White lies, blue lies, colorless ones, harmless
lies, prudent lies.... whatever you might say to justify your lying, it is all
lies! There is no good lie. Ultimately when men first lie there is a looser in
this equation; and that looser is often not the beneficiary of this lie.
Integrity is something that is getting
increasingly in short supply in our society today. All aspects of life are full
of lies, and often many of them are in the name of God! The world is becoming a
pretty dangerous world to the truthful man or woman. A lot of what we see as
prosperity is laid on a foundation dug on a bed of lies. People even lie right
behind the pulpit, in the name of God too.
Problem with lying is that it is often the
beginning of a tangled web that keeps growing around the liar. Sometimes its
tentacles reach out even many years after the first lie is told. A liar can
never live at ease. They live almost each moment looking over their shoulders
lest the lies have caught up with them. I have seen lies at the corporate table
in the name of prudent corporate politics, I have seen lies in marriages in the
name of protecting the marriage. I have seen lies in business in the name of survival
and lies in the church in the name of "touch not the LORD’s anointed.” Politicians
lie to us for the votes, and the elected leaders lie to us to survive yet
another day.
Girl friends lie to boy friends to make a living out of one too many men, and
men lie to girlfriends to obtain from them their honor in exchange for shame
and nothingness.
Lying does not make anyone’s
life any better. It only provides a temporary sense of relief, but like
morphine, over time you need an increase of dosage to keep the pain at bay until
the morphine is no longer enough and then you need a more advanced pain killer, and then another, and another... The
threshold for tolerance is not limitless and will often catch up with you. This makes the world right now a very volatile
place for people of truth. And yet the world as it is right now needs more people
of truth. The tangled web of lies only gets bigger and nastier the longer you
stay in it. The biggest deceit in all this is that you will find
peace, treading on the floors of the temple of Lies; the is no peace to those
that sacrifice at this alter.
Even the biggest tsunamis begin as small ripples
in the middle of the ocean, which continue to feed on the external energy of
other forces that eventually make them pickup more speed, water, mass and
eventually only dissipate in destruction of years of work and investment. This is what telling a
lie will do to you and your years of great work. And by the way, you probably
will be the last to see the destruction coming!
Living a life of truth is
at first grievous, but ultimately breaks out into joyous liberty. A person that
makes truth their culture owes no one any obligation, not even themselves. They
are at liberty to take on life as it comes and enjoy every moment of it without
attempting to control every coming threat to the light of truth. Truth is such
a liberating experience that eventually when you get used to it, living through
the temporary pain it sometimes imposes becomes but a small price to pay.
Make up your mind to break the cycle of lies in
your life and begin a new page. Pick up that "Get out of
jail free" card and wear your
freedom and liberty and walk free from the temple of lies, lest you be consumed
by the very thing you presume to protect.
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